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I KNOW THIS IS HARD AND TAKES TIME BUT YOU ARE HELPING OTHER PEOPLE BY
COMMUNICATING YOUR EXPERIENCES. IT HELPS THEM KNOW WHAT TO LOOK FOR, OR GIVES
THEM REASON TO STOP.
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What is your relationship to the person involved in porn? (put ME if it is you) |
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How did you find out your [spouse, child, friend, etc] was looking at
porn? (or, if YOU are the one looking at porn, have you been caught?) |
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Did they deny it? (if you are the one looking at porn, did you deny
it, or try to hide it?) |
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Did they think it was wrong? (if you are the one looking at porn, do you
think it is wrong?) |
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What affect did it have on your relationship with them? (if you are the one
looking at porn, how has it affected your relationships?) |
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If married to them, what affect did it have on your intimacy with them? (if
you are the one looking at porn, has it affected the intimacy between your and
your spouse?) |
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If any, did it effect your children in any way or what effects are you afraid
it might have? (if you are the one looking at porn, is it affecting your
kids? How might it effect them?)
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Did they quit looking at porn, or has it continued to be a problem? (if you
are the one looking at porn, have you stopped? Do you want to stop,
really?) |
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If it continues, are they trying to hide it? End it? Or do they not care or
think it's okay? (if you are the one looking at porn, are you currently
hiding your porn activity? Do you care or do you not think anything is wrong
with it? Be honest... this is anonymous) |
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Do you think they want to stop? Or will ever actually stop for good? (if you
are the one looking at porn, do you think you'll ever stop? Do you think its
POSSIBLE to stop?) |
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What damage has been done to them because of porn? How have they become a
"lesser" person (not as good a father, an uncaring husband)? What literal things can you
state are WORSE with them because of the porn? (if you are the one looking
at porn, in what ways do you see you becoming "less" or "bad" in other ways?) |
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